Skills

Decision Making

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See it for what it is

Check your assumptions and cognitive biases

Check for exaggeration, like too much negativity or optimism

Often it’s not black and white but a spectrum

Remove the layers, look at the core, the essence

Discuss with people you trust and people with relevant experience

Look at it from different angles and perspectives

Cognitive Biases

Bias For Unhappiness

Prevention is the best

A little forethought can prevent a lot of pain. It’s easier staying out than getting out.

Listen to both heart and mind

Follow your gut for reversible decisions, follow due diligence for the important ones

Consider your principles

Do nothing against your will,
nor against community,
nor without due examination,
nor with reluctancy

Think twice before you speak.

Be careful with promises.

Do what feels right in your heart of hearts, over what is easy.

Neither chase pleasure nor avoid necessary pain.

On Character

Do Not Lie To Yourself

Wait until your mind is clear.

You may be sleepless, hungry, tired, angry, in pain, ..

Don’t decide under physical discomfort or heavy emotion

Don’t get stuck

An ok decision today is often better than a perfect one tomorrow

Do or do not. There is no try.

Once you decide, follow through with a high spirit and persistence.

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